Had another call from H today, right before I was going to lunch... Another, "checking in" call. The attention is nice, but this is odd. He's REALLY nice.
So, I have two cuuuuuuuuuuute outfits packed for the weekend. Tonight the boys and I are going to drive to the town where the bball tournament is (after the varsity game here - shoot me!). H will come home, get ready, and meet us up there in the am. He doesn't get in until really late on Friday nights, so we aren't waiting for him.
This should be a fun weekend.
Still formulating that "discussion" in my mind... It's just not the time, now.
Any input on how to be since he's SO nice? (I'm not saying he's not usually nice, but he can get snarky, and he's unusually nice. Maybe I'm just learning how to handle him....?) I've just completely stopped calling/txting him unless it is absolutely necessary. I was doing well w/that in the past, but not as well as I could have. Now, it's to almost nothing. I do answer cheerfully, and am nice and engaging when I talk to him, and I sometimes have to call him back, instead of answering, as I am handling two boys and four teams of practices and games!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
