Well, she doesn't stop because she knows you will keep getting past it.
I wonder if it is not more of a case of rebellion than anything. But it could be what you said to.
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Say to her... "W, due to your continued sexual R's with other men I have decided to file for divorce and move forward with my life".
If she says okay then file and be done. If she says no then tell her what you expect of her and what must happen for YOU to decide if you want to rebuild this marriage.
The nuclear bomb of divorce busting. And no turning back once it is put into motion. I honestly think she would be overjoyed if I filed because it would save her the hassle of having to do it herself.
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Show her you will no longer get past her affairs and do something about it!
This is an absolute must. Just am I ready to drop the nuclear bomb to make the point? It is a very scary thought to do it and move forward with it. I'm not sure how I would explain to my kids that I finally put the end into motion. I was ready to at one point but was talked out of it. I am not sure I am ready to file. But I do have to show in some form or fashion that I won't continue to put up with ongoing A's.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
