Kevin - She doesnt want to stop because she is "emotionally divorced". You can either accept it or not, but that is reality.
I have accepted that PMA. It sucks, but it has been accepted that it is what her mindset is right now.
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Go listen to Tim McGraws "Live like you were dying" and start doing it.
The words are inspirational in that song. Approach life like I am about to die. Good concept.
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Someday you will kick yourself for giving her any more of yourself then you already have.
I know you are 100% right on this. I already regret throwing away a year of my life being focused on her and not getting my own life going in a better direction. At the same time, I needed this past year to figure some things out and be able to adjust for the current reality of things.
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Show her the new Kevin and you might get different results. PERIOD.
Believe me, from what she saw a year ago, I have improved dramatically in many areas when around her. But I still have improving to do around her and with my own life.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
