Quote: The counselor pointed out that we likely have very different value systems. She also said that my H appears to have a problem with setting boundaries with his family and friends, which results in their feelings being considered before even thinking about our relationship as husband and wife.
We've got much ground to cover before we can even address the LD/HD issues.
Girl, these ARE your LD/HD issues. This is the elusive WHY you have been searching for. What the above sentence your shrink gave you is saying is: The (ABOVE ISSUE) in the mix of you and your H, is why your LD/HD issue is happening.
