Wow, soleil, I wish you were my WAW....LOL. My WAW basically told me that IF we went to MC it would be purely to be better parents and not to save our marriage. We have barely had any R talks over the last 3 months because I wanted to give her some space, and lo and behold, I receive divorce papers this week. It is devestating, especially around the holidays.
Tough one there pit. Sorry. And I have heard the same thing from my W re MC, then she changed her mind, then claimed she didn't change her mind, so it's on to taking apart the M we go.
I agree soleil. Doesn't sound like you are a WAW, just someone who has enough self-respect for herself not to live in a R where only one person is trying. Good for you. Took me a while to figure that out.
