Last comment, not a question. It is sad and disappointing that my W sees no other option AND refuses even to discuss/explore the possibility of reconciliation with a MC. If I am so sure of my position, I know it is unshakable, so I should have NO fear in it being questioned. That, coupled with she has NOTHING to lose by engaging in MC.
Yeah GIMA. I feel for you and am sending you a big hug. I am the WAW in my sitch but I tried so hard to get H to go to MC counseling with me. He went ONE time! He said if we couldn't work out our problems alone then what was the point? It's been 2 months since I left and if he called right now and said, Hey I scheduled MC, wanna go?... I would seriously ask my boss to leave work a little early to do it, even now, even after all this bull$hit!!!!!!!!!
So again, a big hug to you. You are right...NOTHING to lose by MC, the way I view it!