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I don't know that I can ever understand my H's reasoning or forgive my H for basically saying that I'm not important to him.




basically what he said was that his dad is his best friend and that is all he said. You are giving more meaning to that statement than is warrented. Simply because you would choose to use the designation of "best friend" for ones spouse, does not mean that h uses the same designation...try not to be offended when someone uses their meaning of words by ASSuming that they give those words the same meaning you do.

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