It is amazing that we can get past the infidelity if it would stop and yet they just keep on doing it.
In my case, my W actually wants me to hook up with other women. Go figure.
Kevin
Maybe...maybe not! When exh and I were first separated prior to baby I dated this one guy for a few weeks. He was great. I ended it because I still loved exh and wanted my M, and also how exh reacted to it. When exh got wind of it thru the gossip mill he freaked out! I mean called me and accused me of cheating, not wanting our M back, how could I if I really loved him...blah, blah, blah. Yet, he was with OW, me, and most likely countless other women. He would have this strange sense when I was on a date and call and text over and over. It was a complete double standard. Now, I haven't dated or done anything in 18 months. Morally speaking we are divorced and I could but haven't.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
