Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
Ok, just got this from BIL:

B, I'm scared he comes home tomorrow and Im scared of what he could
do. I can't even think of being with someone else not now not in my
future I don't want another man in my life right now except for my boys.
This crap has been going on for a long while and I just can't and will
not live like this. I don't know what he's been telling you but I its
nice he can air out our dirty laundry to my family that pisses me off
more then anything Im sorry you and other B have to endure his gripping
the boys don't answer their cells anymore they said all he talks about
is where am I what am I doing and they are tired of all the complaining
he does.... thank you for your support wish you guys were closer to me

She is spinning right now-putting out feelers to see what I know, and if I have said anything to the Brothers.


SD - Please stay out of this and follow Puppy's instructions about not replying. MY XW did the exact same thing he is talking about last year on Christmas Day. I was very close with her family and on Christmas Day she put a big act on for them and told them that their R with me was detrimental to her case. So guess what happened?? They called me the next day and dropped me like a bad habit. They thought she had turned the corner and was going to build her R back with them and they would have a good R with her and the kids going forward.

Well in mid February they called me and apologized. They hadn't seen the kids since Christmas Day. What a surprise. I forgave them and moved on but I will not ever forget how quickly I was dropped. Since then they have seen her for what she is and have less contact with her than I do. They come to my house twice a week to help around the house, with the kids, etc...

My point is..be numb to that stuff. She is what she is. They'll figure it out. You keep being you. What goes around comes around. I've seen it a lot now.

Strength and Honor.

Mules


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.