How is it that we don't have an issue letting go of the past when they have done horrible things to us, yet they are the ones seemingly in the drivers seat? Not that we each haven't contributed to the demise of the M, but certain issues such as infedelity are different.
I can get past the infidelity of the past because I guess I am a forgiving person and I love my W and want my family back together. But it is hard to accept the present infidelity going on. If it would stop, I could let it be in the past. But it is not stopping at this time. It sucks every day knowing the infidelity is going on and how long that will last.
Kevin
Yep...my exh says that he ended it with MGF, but I know they continue to have contact. We are divorced so by all rights he can do what he wants, but if he truly means what he says (which is doubtful) he wouldn't be leaving the door open with other women. I can get past the infedelity if he would just stand up and be a man of morals and integrity!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
