Have you ever told him that you have a time line in your head, that you think these items of trust must be addressed now or they obviously won't be at all and so what is the point?

Perhaps he feels since you were still there during his affair that he does have a lot of time. I would let him know that he doesn't and be specific. No one likes vague.

hugs, kat


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