That sounds great. I feel the same way. I still have my work to do. I gave way too much of myself to my X and now I am trying to rebuild what was taken. It takes time. I still have problems letting go of the past. I try to forgive but because of all the lies that she told and continue to tell it's not easy. Especially when they affect my daughter.
I don't have problems so much letting go of the past. I have problems accepting the present and future of this continued path my W is on.
That is where detachment should be my #1 priority.
Kevin
How is it that we don't have an issue letting go of the past when they have done horrible things to us, yet they are the ones seemingly in the drivers seat? Not that we each haven't contributed to the demise of the M, but certain issues such as infedelity are different.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
