Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

You want a "small" victory SD?

Here's your victory: For many, many months, your wife has been planning on how this is all going to go down. In ONE WEEK, you have spoiled those plans, and have gone on the offensive.

Exactly! The TRO and implications of feeling "threatened" are her running scared.

When Private Douchebag is out of the picture, she'll really be in a tizzy. When her request for a TRO is dismissed because there's no basis for it, she'll be reeling.

And you need to be there. Strong, full of compassion for what she's had to deal with at home while you were serving your country, but not going to take any crap.

You love her and you want to work things out with her. But she needs to stop being this scared, miserable wretch and start being the woman that you married again for that to happen.