Sorry, AFG that you have to go through this. This is so incredibly hard. Geez, and all I had to deal with was X taking OW to the concert we had planned ALL SUMMER for. Much less ski clothes, etc. scattered about.

I know the pain. It sucks so bad. Cry, scream into pillows. And remember how badly he is treating you and how you deserve so much better.

And he should break both legs and both arms, in my opinion. Let the OW attend to his, um, "personal needs" then.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process