You just put up all of the lights on the house/yard by yourself. You work two jobs. You raise your son and care for your mom. On a daily basis you have proven already that you don't need anyone else!!!
Now, wanting someone else is a different thing entirely...
Have fun at that party tonight. Hopefully you can move your arms enough to raise a glass or two... Good job btw snacking on the apple and cheese. I have been doing the string cheese thing lately...