Originally Posted By: luvless
He still initiates conversation and will say, "you wanna get something to eat"...should I say "you go ahead?"

NO. You say sure, why not. Let's go have some fun. And go. If it's boring or starts acting out... you smile and tell him, "Look this isn't working, either change your attitude or I'm outta here." ... He'll either change or will persist. If he persists don't say another word, get up calmly and leave.

From there handle yourself with class. No shouting, screaming, disdainful looks. Nada. Comprehende. You're a cool chick and can handle yourself. Pull out your cell phone and call a taxi or friend to come pick you up...

Oh, and you don't return home for at least two hours. Shrug him off. Don't listen to his protests.


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