COgal,

I know exactly how you feel. Everything you just said sounds very similar to my W. She doesn't like to touch or cuddle or anything. We did alot of that stuff before we were married and had a child. Now nothing. I don't even have the ability to start things because if I do she just gets mad because she doesnt want to be touched. So I am in the same boat as you. I have been thinking about moving on lately but we have a D and I really don't want to ruin her life or anything like that. I wish I had some very good advice but im still on my journey(Sp).

Lee