Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

You know what?
I've been thinking about the BIL thing. She is putting out feelers to see if they KNOW anything. She knows I have been talking to them. Folks, you may be on to something here.

You don't have to expose the A to them yet; If the OM chooses to back off, there may not be a need to. The more you conduct yourself with strength, honor, and confidence, the more chance you have of bringing her back around (assuming the affair does get busted).

They'll find out what you know when she does -- when and if you drop the evidence from the PI on her. That's a lot more damning than baseless accusations from her about "feeling threatened".