I have takes to a lot of people about this. The WAS's that I have talked to say there's a feeling of hopelessness. Feeling that happiness within the marriage is impossible. Getting out seems like the key to their happiness.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.