Gnosis, this BIL is on my side. He is very angry with W for her actions. She cut HIM off 2 months ago, because he told her she was acting stupid, and immature. But I will be careful.
Tell him the truth: you have not threatened her and you don't know why she is saying those things about you.
When you get home, your actions will speak louder than her words.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement