Folks aren't necessarily staring or gossiping. The ones who know the situation look to you to let them know how to respond. Others might not really care. After all, it's your train wreck, not theirs.
I controlled how folks reacted me to based on the boundaries I set for myself.. demurring rumors, not calling him names or letting others do it and taking the high road. The less gasoline I gave to the fire, the less drama. Of course, that didn't stop me from fuming like crazy with good friends who were quite adroit with 2x4's.
It's amazing how interesting talking about the weather can be when emotionally stressed. Good job on going to the party! And putting the house on the market is a good thing.. even though it's taken me forever to get there.
*hugs*
We should have a tri-state holiday fest of DB'ers.. now that would be fun!
