I have a similar position Jstar. My H is emailing me about selling the house, filing the paperwork, etc. I have avoided email, talking or texting him. I have nothing to say right now. I meet with a lawyer today to find out what exactly "separated' means. Not sure if I can change the locks on the house so he can't just come in and take stuff as he pleases.
The only thing I am sure of is the GAL piece. I have been having dinner with friends, shopping for Christmas, talking on the phone and enjoying some quiet "Me" time. I am also becoming a different person because of the situation he chose. I am starting to realize that this is his issue and not mine and I will not run on his time. I have all the time in the world . . . .
M - 41 WAH - 41 D - 20 M-21 years T-24 years Separated - Nov 6, 2009