Ok, Trent How do I do that at this point? I think it is much too early to even suggest that, but I am probably wrong. How is this addressed? Thanks.
Well, hopefully the affair is about to be busted. I don't have a military background, so I don't know what can happen to him if he keeps on with her after he is ordered to stay away.
Stay dark to her; anything you say can and will be used against you, and I don't necessarily mean in D proceedings.
Spend time with the rest of your family and your friends. If her family tries to reach out to you in a supportive manner, let them know that you appreciate it and want things to work out for the best, but don't go into details.
I'm sure Coach and the others will have useful advice as well.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement