I am in the same exact boat as you. my h walked out 2nov 09 and we are not doing anything. i did all things chasing until day before thanksgiving and been dark since in lrt. he does not even see his d2 and it's been what almost 3 weeks.
he's called and texted a few times but i have not responded, i have no clue what to say to him.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline