I am in the same exact boat as you. my h walked out 2nov 09 and we are not doing anything. i did all things chasing until day before thanksgiving and been dark since in lrt. he does not even see his d2 and it's been what almost 3 weeks.

he's called and texted a few times but i have not responded, i have no clue what to say to him.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline