Hi Rabbit! Sounds like excellent progress! My H said "I love you" for the first time since the A progressed. It was a very special moment, because we both knew he would not say that lightly or without meaning it. He has also verbally re-commited to our marriage and we are now discussing Christmas. Huge relief.... but a long road ahead! I am finally looking forward to Christmas though... knowing it will be as it always has been... together. I hope you and h have a wonderful Christmas together and build some new, special memories to treasure! Hugs, Rocked