Ok, Honestly, after reading through my sitch, knowing what you know. I beg to ask: Is there any hope for me in bringing my wife home? Please don't bs me, I need to know, what are the chances of bringing her home?
No way anyone can answer this.
Don't know why I keep punishing myself. Need to let it go.
There is NO way to know. But giving up is the only technique that has one guaranteed result and only one option. If you think there is ANY chance you want to fight for your M and family, you should not give up. It is the easy way from this sitch. But is it the right thing to do? An equally difficult question to answer and one which it's too soon to answer.
So, you can always choose to go the D route and be done. But, if you aren't 100% sure AND you are making that decision to hurt her rather than it being the right decision for YOU, I would not make that decision right now.
48 hour rule - if it's a good decision, it still will be in 2 days. But then, you will be able to make a decision with emotion not being a large part of it. Just slow down on this issue for right now. You have enough to handle as it is.
