That is a good thing to do, just be ready for the rude reaction. She won't like it at all that you are 'too busy' to get back to her right away if she is anything like my exh. When I would get back to him he would be completely irriated, say things like nevermind and whatever...which in turns sends me into sort of a panic at him being mad at me. Its the desired response he wants.
Ya, I know that will come with taking an hour to respond. Whenever she is rude to me, it always puts doubts in my mind of any progress I hope to be making.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...