Hi Britt, Continue to keep your guard up, GAL, be mysterious... and keep investigating. When my H was in the midst of his A, it was with someone who would have damaged his professional career terribly... probably would have completely ruined it! Somehow, I think that added to the excitement? Also - he constantly teased me about other men, even trying to almost "encourage" me to date or something....? It was so weird and out of character for him, but I think it was a way he was trying to justify things. Now he tells me he somehow convinced himself that it would all be ok because he could leave me for OW and I would find someone who would make me happy, so therefore the kids would be happy.... Huh?
I just say this to say.... when someone is cheating, is not logical or does not make sense.
It may not be the case for you, but it is better to know than not know, IMO.
