Stupidity on my part. Not being disciplined enough. I need to be more disciplined and wait to respond on anything each time a situation arises until I have thought it through. Probably waiting an hour like CG said is a great idea to put into practice going forward. I think I will start implementing that asap.
Kevin
That is a good thing to do, just be ready for the rude reaction. She won't like it at all that you are 'too busy' to get back to her right away if she is anything like my exh. When I would get back to him he would be completely irriated, say things like nevermind and whatever...which in turns sends me into sort of a panic at him being mad at me. Its the desired response he wants.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
