All, I want my W back. I really do. I ache for her, even though she is acting this way. I feel her pain, and want to help her, but I know I can't. I want her to want to come back to me, but deep down, deep down, I know she won't. She has too much pride to do that.
Don't rule anything out. The intention to keep walking away is very much part of the WAS script.
This is where trying to stay dark to her will help. If you don't give her a target to lash out on, she will come down. People can't stay that angry forever.
Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
She is set on this, and hurting me as much as possible. I do think that the only reason she is hurting me so bad, is to make herself feel better about what she is doing.
That is certainly part of it. She needs to push you away to make it easier on her and the OM. But when OM is no longer an option, she'll have to think twice...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement