Kevin, how do you learn best so we can change our approach when we post to you?
I have learned a great deal. I realize that people have different ways of getting their point across. I am ok with that. The point being made is the important thing for me, not how it is delivered. The insight is invaluable and really helps me to think about things in a different and better way for how to approach future situations when they occur.
I am just not the best at applying it when I need to. Sometimes I am better than other times. I do apply alot, but when I don't or miss an opportunity to apply a good DBing technique, it does seem to get magnified. But I still draw from it what I should have done in the situation.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...