You are right, some a$$hole took advantage of her, and now she probably feels like it is too late to go back to me, because I would make her life hell, so instead she is choosing to D me.
SD, it really sucks that you have to fight even harder now that you're home. No one should have to deal with what you are dealing with, but especially not someone who has chosen to serve and protect their country.
Be the strong, honorable man that she and your family need you to be. Fight for her, but keep in mind that she's forgotten whose side she's supposed to be on.
If the OM leaves her life, the love chemicals will stop bubbling for him eventually. If you play it straight and are willing to leave the door open for reconciliation, who knows what will happen.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
