You know why, he's paying attention to you. I'm sorry but the crap about you being attractive is crap, if you weren't attractive EX wouldn't be around...You just need to realize you're worth more than being a fallback person.
Now you may not be maybe he really wants you and his D back but doesn't know how. It's all part of the addiction, he doesn't know how to deal with real life, if it doesn't go his way he's always got alcohol and drugs...Thats the hardest part learning how to deal with feelings and life without the use of drugs.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."