Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[mulesqb]

W is contacting me via e-mail.

I'm not gonna respond, It is just too much.

I gotta let the system do the work for me now. I have an appt. Monday evening w/atty. Also, have confirmed that we will be at restraining order hearing as well. My L, tells me that the judge will probably let me have the boys, split at x-mas this year. Also told me that i CAN go to my house-calm, cool, colected. She might call police, and if so, remain calm. L also said that W would probably WANT me to take kids so that she can go do her thing.

Don't respond - absolutely nothing positive can come out of it. Remember - you have been playing offense by gathering intel, sending e-mail to let her know you know., etc.. Time to change direction and strategy. Play defense. Protect your end. Mystery from your side is good. How can she play offense against you when she doesn't know what you are doing. Give her nothing. Disguise your defenses.

Also, not so sure she is going to let you have the kids so easy. I am sure she is being schooled by her L that the way to winning right now is through being Supermom. Gaining custody. The better she looks as a mom, the more you pay.

Do your thing. Be the man you are. Trust in the system. Make sure your L is a good one. It is sooo important at this point. Calling the police is a typical move. Mine didn't. I was warned by many about that. I never gave her a chance. Always made sure our interactions were in the presence of another person who could vouch for me. Unfortunately this is what you have been dealt. I feel for you. But you have to play smart.

You can handle this. With Strength and Honor. Keep it up.

Mules