Hey, maybe it is us. Maybe ALL of us that post here are way off base.

And if it wasn't your point to say in a public forum that I "rip into Kevin" then why mention it?

It's intersting to me that certain posters here take a far tougher stance than I do. When they do it they get cheers, when I do it I am "ripping into somebody". Funny how that works.

I suppose all I can say is I am grateful for the people that spent hours of time for close to 2 years 2x4'ing me. It took a LONG time for it to register. But without their experience to draw on and the absolute resolute stance they took with me I would probably still be in the corner of my living room rocking in a fetal position.

So, your suggestion is I stop posting to Kevin until he takes the advice? Or are you suggesting I just cheer him on even if I happen to have a different opinion? What would be your suggestion or how would you handle things?