CG your views are not incorrect and I disagree that this isnt about boundaries EVERYTHING is about BOUNDARIES when you are trying to GAIN RESPECT especially if you have never set them before.
We are just here to offer advice. Some take it, others dont. God Bless the US and the 1st Amendment.
I personally, like others get frustrated when you offer the same advice over and over and nothing changes. But that is "my stuff" and my need to work on patience.
I personally feel the advice that both 25 and CG have been offering is priceless. Michelle couldnt have said it better herself. If Kevin would take the time to REFLECT on all these posts he might actually starting THINKING instead of just REACTING which is one of the top ten characteristics of an ADDICTIVE personality.
Merry Christmas Everyone! Peace and goodwill to all. HO HO HO!
