Start of the end..

[iwantittowork]

Well, I figured it is time to come back to my thread, and move from newcomers to here again, but for good now.

I moved out of my house about 2 months ago, and had little to no communication with STBXW since that time, and D process is full swing..

I have noticed she is actively avoiding me as well, so that is what it is. She makes sure she doesn't answer the phone when I call, and has d8 do that. I know she doesn't have call waiting, but knows what time I call. Last night when I called, she answered, but then I could hear her yelling across the room to d8 "I told you the phone was for you, why didn't you get it?"

Oh well. I am moving on for now, I have to spend time doing my financial paperwork and put down a bunch of stuff to take to L and start on our plan on what to offer for D.

I have been avoiding that, but need to buckle down and do it. It's just emotional when you sit down to put everything on paper, and look at finances as I am getting hammered financially, and try and piece all that together..