Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Gnosis]

Should I reply to the e-mail about the threats?

NO. NO. NO. NO. NO. NO.
Because it gives her proof that you have read it.
Because she knows she's pushing your buttons.
Because you will reward her.
Because... a thousand other reasons that don't come to mind.

I am hurting so bad right now.

We KNOW the feeling. Channel your anger, frustration and pain into something you CAN do... Get the F*** off this board now and go do a 10 mile run.

Stay away from your trigger points which for now is: email, texts and telephony.

She basically admitted the A, but again-NO CONSEQUENCES for her!!!!

Those are coming.

I want to see some results from this, it just seems to be making things so much worse...

Rome wasn't built in a day.

As much as you're going to hate this, TIME is your ally and PATIENCE is going to be the most painful lesson you're going to learn.

Go and burn some energy on something constructive.