Well, if you and your both know you might have to work late without having advance notice why don't the two of you put your heads together and come up with a backup plan when this happens?
That is not to say you won't help each other out but sometimes it might not be possible. You say your idea about a backup plan, let her state hers and go from there.
She has had her mom as a backup plan when I can't. I haven't had a backup plan because I don't know who can back me up when it happens.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...