Turn the mind game back onto her. Let her worry about what you are going to do... and then get slapped in the face when it gets done. This is what she is doing to you isn't it? Turn the tables.
2. Follow the advice you have been given.
I warned you that she is on the warpath. And I told you she is getting legal advice. Hence: Restraining Order. She is doing whatever her L tells her to do.
It's time for you to disconnect too. Do not open anymore emails from her because they get you worked up. If she calls your base you leave standing instructions for "Radio Silence" i.e. "Sorry, SD is out on manouvres. Dunno when he'll be back. Will take a message." So as far as she knows... you're still wherever you are.
This will send her in a tailspin.
You feed the enemy disinformation. If she doesn't know where you are and what you're doing she can only taunt you. Maintain radio silence.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT