Can I save my marriage?

[mindfull]

Britt:

I understand the hockey thing, as I have two boys that play club soccer, and it is all-consuming, and will only get worse!!! We are slaves to their sport (and one's a gk!).

HOWEVER, how involved are you in his hockey passion? It's one thing to KNOW the schedules and SEE the routine, but, it probably wouldn't hurt to pop in on some games unannounced, right?

The BB has to be an annoyance. I have to tell you, since I use one, as well. It can become a stupid addiction. Why sit idle when you can see the latest headlines? What's that sports score? What time do the Bucs play? Oh, I'll answer those few emails. I have to be very conscious of it, because I know how annoying it is to talk to, be with, etc... someone whose damn head is always looking down at a screen and/or looking up "blank" and not having any idea what you just said to them.
AND, I AM NOT CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND. HOWEVER, it could be a VERY good cover for communications w/someone, BECAUSE of the excuse of looking at so much more.

Ok, done.

Good Luck!