P.S. I did something that felt really horrible. I found H's old cell phone in the spare room the one he's had for the last few months. He just bought a new one a few days ago. I checked the memory and no weird or out of the ordinary outgoing calls, or incoming calls. The texts were erased but H has erased his texts since I met him five years ago. Its not unusual. He always erases them as he receives or sends them.
I also checked the contact list. The only one that stood out was the girl from the hockey banquet that he sat at the same table as all night. He was beaking her again the other day. Somehow her name came up and he made fun of her. He really dislikes her. Not sure why he has her number. But the girl he was supposedly seeing was not in there.
The guy never ever leaves his phone unattended. It is attached to his hip so I don't think he would purposely not put her name in there.
He has been out of the house, I would never get my hands on his cell to find out. But its good new anyways.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14