K, I know to you guys the whole hockey thing sounds crazy. But it is legit.

I will explain. My husband was a big hockey player when I met him, played in a professional league and went over to Germany to play and nothing came out of it. So he moved home and became a police man. Since then he takes every opportunity to play that he can. It used to be his life and he had to give it up.

Wed night his brother called the house saying their goalie backed out and they needed H. I know this because I talked to him on the phone. We went swimming that evening at the all in one pool/rink center we have and H took his equipment right to the dressing room before we jumped in the pool. I saw it with my own two eyes.

Last night H played with his regular rec team. H is the goalie so its not to physical for him. He "aired" out his hockey equipment in the basement before he went and I checked his team's schedule and they did play.

H also plays in a league for an out of town team where he is paid. Paid big money. He goes there on weekends to play. You've probably heard me mention how is wanted to play this weekend to make money for Christmas presents, well he is going to play there this weekend. I checked that schedule too. Its all legit. The guys just loves hockey.

There is a professional league team in our city. The league that H used to play for and he has tickets for tonights game. His father has season tickets so they always go together and take S3. So that's where he is going tonight.

Make sense?


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14