Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
Coach, all,
my only concern now is...
that since my W is getting a rest. order, that she has plans to keep my boys away from me. I am concerned that when I phone her and give her my flight data, she will not have them there, and I will be there alone. But, I have a plan in place if that happens, my friend went to dallas, and left his car at the airport, so I have a ride and place to stay. But I am very concerned that W won't take my boys to greet me, and then will shield them from me until Wednesday, when the restraining order goes into effect, and then I won't get to see them at all. Thoughts?


When you call her? SD ~~~ you are NOT going to call her. Look, I know you want to see the boys and I hope you will but not by calling her. Don't make decisions that have long range implications based on a short term feeling. In other words, if she keeps the boys from you this two weeks, she cannot keep them from you forever - so it's temporary. However, if you get on the phone with her - and you KNOW how that's going to go - that could have long term effects for you.

I know how much you love your boys. But you need to a lawyer more than anything right now...so you can keep those boys in the future.

Your boys are more important than anything. But getting a L is pertinent and urgent.

TCB!
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