It's very difficult to view our own situations with a clear view because we are directly involved. Outsiders (me, you and everybody else that posts to him) can see things in a different way as we are not emotionally invested in the same way Kevin is.
I can openly admit I do get frustrated at Kevin because the same advice is doled out frequently but rarely is it applied. I also get frustrated at Kevin ( and this is projection my part which I know is unfair) because I know what I went through before I really stood up to my H. I would up in the hospital so riddled with anxiety I could barely function. For almost 18 months I had people 2x4 me and I simply figured I knew a better way to handle a WAS (clearly I did not, lol!). I spent so much time worrying about my WAS I forgot about me. A hospital stay will wake you up. I never want that to happen to anybody. Ever.
