I also said 'splitting up was the best thing that has happened to me'.
Refrain from those types of statements toward her. Don't convey any type of emotion around her.
That is your house so you should go back to it and fast.
Ok point taken - but it was slightly out of context . I meant that it was the best thing because it forced my hand in going to get medical help about my depression, which will help me get my life back on track. In the heat of the argument it was impossible to explain this statement.
