hi im a wife to a soldier in korea and im going thro the same thing but the other way around is there any input so far that uve gotten that would help me as well... I have a kid as well with him and it kills me he don’t call her or even try to find out how she is doing... but I do know sometimes we are stubborn and we can be at times... ive been tiring to read ur story and I know its very hard when ur so far... I see she ask u details about everything I did the same to my H.... may be that’s why he’s not talking to me but we don’t know what’s happening where u guys are... that’s why I ask not to manipulate him just to better understand where he’s at and where hens coming from so I can help if I can while he’s there ... I feel ur pain I share the same its hard with the kids ....


Me: 35 yrs
H: 35 yrs
D: 18 yrs
Married: 21 yrs
H is over seas : July. 2009, "not happy now..confused" "don't know what I want" "I love you, but not in love with you"
Currently: confused and lonely