Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Coach]

PS-Coach, I must be in MLC lalaland because I am so down with the tattoo thing! Well, at least the beers!

Let's get the rest of the boys on board too. Gima, Puppy, Rob, McQueen, Thinker, SP, EB, Trent, Gno....... you guys in???

[SoldierDad]

Coach, all,
my only concern now is...
that since my W is getting a rest. order, that she has plans to keep my boys away from me. I am concerned that when I phone her and give her my flight data, she will not have them there, and I will be there alone. But, I have a plan in place if that happens, my friend went to dallas, and left his car at the airport, so I have a ride and place to stay. But I am very concerned that W won't take my boys to greet me, and then will shield them from me until Wednesday, when the restraining order goes into effect, and then I won't get to see them at all. Thoughts?

[Coach]

That's why you hire a L, use the military system and document events. This won't last forever. It just feels like it. Make sure your boys know your flight info. Keep them updated on your ETA. Let them know you love them.

You will see your boys.

[Gnosis]

If you have truly not done anything, what's the basis for it? Surely, you can't just request one!!

Yes you can. And its an EXTREMELY common tactic used by vindictive b*tches to screw over the man.

Soldier, make sure the attorney you hire is an advocate of "men's rights". The law unfortunately in your case is skewed towards woman's side. That's why a good men's rights focused attorney will help you.

[SoldierDad]

Gnosis, I will do my best. I am amazed at the person that my W has become. She wants to ruin/destroy me, piece by piece. But I am not going to allow her that pleasure. I am going to reclaim each piece, piece by piece, until I am whole again. Once I am put back together, I will be better than what I ever was.
I ask all of you to include me and my boys, and my W in your prayers-as many of you have already said. I will need your strength, and wisdom to make it through these tough times.

[givingitmyall]

PS-Coach, I must be in MLC lalaland because I am so down with the tattoo thing! Well, at least the beers!

Let's get the rest of the boys on board too. Gima, Puppy, Rob, McQueen, Thinker, SP, EB, Trent, Gno....... you guys in???

Name the time and place and I'm there.

[Super Girl]

PS-Coach, I must be in MLC lalaland because I am so down with the tattoo thing! Well, at least the beers!

Let's get the rest of the boys on board too. Gima, Puppy, Rob, McQueen, Thinker, SP, EB, Trent, Gno....... you guys in???

What about the girls?

[givingitmyall]

Once I am put back together, I will be better than what I ever was.

THIS is the overriding goal. But, first thigs first.

I ask all of you to include me and my boys, and my W in your prayers-as many of you have already said.

Done.

[Gnosis]

my only concern now is...
that since my W is getting a rest. order, that she has plans to keep my boys away from me. I am concerned that when I phone her and give her my flight data, she will not have them there, and I will be there alone.

Wassamatter? Dontcha listen too good?

Listen, I can understand you want to see your boys, but NOW IS NOT THE TIME. I'll repeat this because you're STILL NOT GETTING IT!!!!!!!

1. GET A FREAKING LAWYER FIRST!!!!!!

Fundamentals of war:
1. Restrict all access to information. You don't tell her anything.
2. You NEVER reveal your location. PERIOD.
3. You NEVER tell them what you intend to do, unless it's the opposite of what you REALLY intend to do.
4. You confuse the enemy with disinformation: Ergo... you send her an email... "Somethings come up... I won't be making it home as planned."

Let's get the rest of the boys on board too. Gima, Puppy, Rob, McQueen, Thinker, SP, EB, Trent, Gno....... you guys in???

Not sure what this is about Coach, but it sounds good to me. Count me in and point me in the right direction.

[armywifevampi]

hi im a wife to a soldier in korea and im going thro the same thing but the other way around is there any input so far that uve gotten that would help me as well... I have a kid as well with him and it kills me he don’t call her or even try to find out how she is doing... but I do know sometimes we are stubborn and we can be at times... ive been tiring to read ur story and I know its very hard when ur so far... I see she ask u details about everything I did the same to my H.... may be that’s why he’s not talking to me but we don’t know what’s happening where u guys are... that’s why I ask not to manipulate him just to better understand where he’s at and where hens coming from so I can help if I can while he’s there ... I feel ur pain I share the same its hard with the kids ....