Re-read the midlife stages in resources and wondered if H actually has gone through withdrawal and his decision to divorce me is what is described as the decision regarding marriage the MLCer finally shares with the spouse post-withdrawal. I know I'm not supposed to try and figure out stages...but the sad part of me wondered if this IS the final, clear decision he is making....
Oh K you were doing so well until you got to this part. Your posts over the past few weeks have shown that your H is still confused. You don't really believe he is making a clear decision, do you?
Let him go for now. Try to think of it this way. With him not home he doesn't have any distractions now. The focus will now hopefully be on himself.
