the above is EXACTLY how he feels...he has said so himself.
i have only been nc for 2 weeks...and ONLY because he continually blames me for everything. no matter what i say or do i am wrong...
i literally force myself not to call and pester because he seems he never wants to talk to me about anything. always cuts me short...
all i keep hearing are his 2 reasons he has given me about wanting to file for d...he is suffocated and trapped...thats it. i know these are big issues but are they because of me and our marriage or are they because of what he is feeling and what he is going through?
i am at a COMPLETE AND UTTER LOSS as what to do...or not do
if he wont be around me it seems impossible to show him any type of support or understanding...
all i hear is divorce and it scares me to a point of shock because i dont believe that is what he truly wants or needs. he has and will not get any help
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
